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		<title>By: Download Idiot Proof Diet</title>
		<link>http://www.sadlyno.com/archives/2852.html#comment-804995</link>
		<dc:creator>Download Idiot Proof Diet</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 11 Feb 2009 08:47:15 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>This is a great job! Well done. Thank you sharing your ideas and knowledge.</description>
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		<title>By: Mal de mer</title>
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		<dc:creator>Mal de mer</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 01 Jun 2006 15:21:24 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Oh, well...now &lt;i&gt;that&lt;/i&gt; makes perfect sense.  If that commenter is older than 16, there&#039;s real trouble there.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Oh, well&#8230;now <i>that</i> makes perfect sense.  If that commenter is older than 16, there&#8217;s real trouble there.</p>
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		<title>By: tigrismus</title>
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		<dc:creator>tigrismus</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 01 Jun 2006 15:00:52 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>There&#039;s at least one commenter at JG&#039;s site saying that it&#039;s OK for JG to disregard the Online Integrity principles in regard to Thersites, even if JG signed the pledge, because &lt;i&gt;Thersites didn&#039;t&lt;/i&gt;.  And I thought lefties were supposed to be the relativists?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>There&#8217;s at least one commenter at JG&#8217;s site saying that it&#8217;s OK for JG to disregard the Online Integrity principles in regard to Thersites, even if JG signed the pledge, because <i>Thersites didn&#8217;t</i>.  And I thought lefties were supposed to be the relativists?</p>
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		<title>By: Nabakov</title>
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		<dc:creator>Nabakov</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 01 Jun 2006 14:07:09 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I always felt the phrase &quot;blog integrity&quot; was up there with &quot;military intelligence&quot;&#039; &quot;compassionate conservativism&quot; and &quot;christian rock&quot;.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I always felt the phrase &#8220;blog integrity&#8221; was up there with &#8220;military intelligence&#8221;&#8216; &#8220;compassionate conservativism&#8221; and &#8220;christian rock&#8221;.</p>
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		<title>By: Dr. BLT</title>
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		<dc:creator>Dr. BLT</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 01 Jun 2006 13:12:24 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I agree with you Mal de mer, and I stand corrected.  I should not have framed my discussion in terms of tenor in public discourse because it tends to imply that when one allows public discourse to regress to a certain level, whatever a person may have done to add fuel to the fire ultimately justifies what comes to them.  Nothing could be further from the truth.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I agree with you Mal de mer, and I stand corrected.  I should not have framed my discussion in terms of tenor in public discourse because it tends to imply that when one allows public discourse to regress to a certain level, whatever a person may have done to add fuel to the fire ultimately justifies what comes to them.  Nothing could be further from the truth.</p>
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		<title>By: Mal de mer</title>
		<link>http://www.sadlyno.com/archives/2852.html#comment-53977</link>
		<dc:creator>Mal de mer</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 01 Jun 2006 11:04:40 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&lt;i&gt;It is something I would never condone. Show me where I have even implied in any way that I condone or excuse this sort of abhorent behavior.&lt;/i&gt;

I don&#039;t doubt that for a second that you would ever condone behaviour like this.  I just question what it is you think you&#039;re doing by drawing focus away from the issue at hand (unethical behaviour) by framing it as an issue of tenor in public discourse.  What exactly is the value in that...&lt;i&gt;here&lt;/i&gt;...for anyone besides yourself?  The last few years of discussing very hard, very terrible things have been paved over with this veneer of phony civility, hypocrisy and wishful thinking and it&#039;s gotten all of us absolutely nowhere.

Maybe it&#039;s something you&#039;ve forgotten over the years, but very often (in fact in the majority of instances, I happen to believe), there&#039;s great value in saying nothing at all.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><i>It is something I would never condone. Show me where I have even implied in any way that I condone or excuse this sort of abhorent behavior.</i></p>
<p>I don&#8217;t doubt that for a second that you would ever condone behaviour like this.  I just question what it is you think you&#8217;re doing by drawing focus away from the issue at hand (unethical behaviour) by framing it as an issue of tenor in public discourse.  What exactly is the value in that&#8230;<i>here</i>&#8230;for anyone besides yourself?  The last few years of discussing very hard, very terrible things have been paved over with this veneer of phony civility, hypocrisy and wishful thinking and it&#8217;s gotten all of us absolutely nowhere.</p>
<p>Maybe it&#8217;s something you&#8217;ve forgotten over the years, but very often (in fact in the majority of instances, I happen to believe), there&#8217;s great value in saying nothing at all.</p>
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		<title>By: John Protevi</title>
		<link>http://www.sadlyno.com/archives/2852.html#comment-53951</link>
		<dc:creator>John Protevi</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 01 Jun 2006 04:03:46 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Good for you, Doc. Your last post is right on.</description>
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		<title>By: Dr. BLT</title>
		<link>http://www.sadlyno.com/archives/2852.html#comment-53946</link>
		<dc:creator>Dr. BLT</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 01 Jun 2006 03:33:28 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&quot;Justify how JGâ€™s behavior qualifies as civility. You cannot and you know you cannot.&quot;

I cannot, I know I cannot.  I wouldn&#039;t want to justify any of this.  Violating somebody&#039;s privacy in that way is a terrible thing.  In some cases, it can put somebody&#039;s life in danger.  It is something I would never condone.  Show me where I have even implied in any way that I condone or excuse this sort of abhorent behavior.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>&#8220;Justify how JGâ€™s behavior qualifies as civility. You cannot and you know you cannot.&#8221;</p>
<p>I cannot, I know I cannot.  I wouldn&#8217;t want to justify any of this.  Violating somebody&#8217;s privacy in that way is a terrible thing.  In some cases, it can put somebody&#8217;s life in danger.  It is something I would never condone.  Show me where I have even implied in any way that I condone or excuse this sort of abhorent behavior.</p>
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		<title>By: LJ/Aquaria</title>
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		<dc:creator>LJ/Aquaria</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 01 Jun 2006 02:17:44 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>What BLT fails to realize in this particular instance is that Thersites did indeed WALK AWAY from the discussion. He posted it up there in big bright letters for all to read that he was letting the argument go. It is JG who failed to let it go, and, in fact, took it to a whole new sewer. Justify JG&#039;s behavior in light of that, BLT. Justify why JG did not do the same. Justify how JG&#039;s behavior qualifies as civility. You cannot and you know you cannot.

I tried to make the privacy argument in one of the comments at Theri&#039;s site, directly asking JG to respect the man&#039;s privacy. I knew this guy was about to out them. He displayed every damned sign of it. And then he did it. Did it make his point in the original argument right or better?

It was a disgusting piece of work, and, I don&#039;t care what the provocation, it was wrong. As far as I&#039;m concerned, JG&#039;s server should remove his site, permanently.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>What BLT fails to realize in this particular instance is that Thersites did indeed WALK AWAY from the discussion. He posted it up there in big bright letters for all to read that he was letting the argument go. It is JG who failed to let it go, and, in fact, took it to a whole new sewer. Justify JG&#8217;s behavior in light of that, BLT. Justify why JG did not do the same. Justify how JG&#8217;s behavior qualifies as civility. You cannot and you know you cannot.</p>
<p>I tried to make the privacy argument in one of the comments at Theri&#8217;s site, directly asking JG to respect the man&#8217;s privacy. I knew this guy was about to out them. He displayed every damned sign of it. And then he did it. Did it make his point in the original argument right or better?</p>
<p>It was a disgusting piece of work, and, I don&#8217;t care what the provocation, it was wrong. As far as I&#8217;m concerned, JG&#8217;s server should remove his site, permanently.</p>
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		<title>By: E</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 01 Jun 2006 00:58:44 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Comments on the thread in question on Respectfully Republican must now be &quot;approved by the moderators&quot;.

Whimps.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Comments on the thread in question on Respectfully Republican must now be &#8220;approved by the moderators&#8221;.</p>
<p>Whimps.</p>
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		<title>By: marky</title>
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		<dc:creator>marky</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 31 May 2006 22:02:18 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Chadwick 11:09, 
meet Marky 10:02
KISS</description>
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meet Marky 10:02<br />
KISS</p>
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		<title>By: Mal de mer</title>
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		<dc:creator>Mal de mer</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 31 May 2006 21:26:47 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Was it something I said?</description>
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		<title>By: Chadwick</title>
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		<dc:creator>Chadwick</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 31 May 2006 21:09:39 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Dobby-

I accept, and apologize for the ad hominems I chucked at you. Moving on. 

Mal-

&lt;i&gt;so â€œwingnutâ€? doesnâ€™t always mean the same thing for me as it does for you.&lt;/i&gt;

Sweet Zombie Jesus, an honest to god relativist roaming the earth. So your argument is basically that we were using different terms and neither of us are wrong because you&#039;re using a rickety old Canuck insult variation instead of the American version? 

Dude- don&#039;t be a hoser. You post here entirely too much to not know what &quot;wingnut&quot; means in civilized countries..

Alright, that&#039;s all the anti-Canadian chauvinism I can fake. 

To be honest, mal, disappointment is the correct word. I thought folks around here might know if the &quot;Thers called JG a pedophile&quot; was thoroughly debunked, so I could go on, maybe link to it or at least disprove JG&#039;s allegation that he would ban the asshole who made the remark. (Incidentally, while the PW commenters are by and large disgusting, there was a lot of enthusiasm for banning whoever made that comment. They&#039;re not *completely* amoral, just mostly.). I asked some questions, repeatedly stated  I was against outing, requested not to be piled on-

And here we are, still discussing each others failings. I know you&#039;re not apologizing, but having read your humor comments on other topics, this whole conversation been pretty fucking disappointing. I&#039;m not expecting an apology though- that would require class, and Dr. BLT (!) is the only one on here who&#039;s displayed any of that. 

Good day to you.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Dobby-</p>
<p>I accept, and apologize for the ad hominems I chucked at you. Moving on. </p>
<p>Mal-</p>
<p><i>so â€œwingnutâ€? doesnâ€™t always mean the same thing for me as it does for you.</i></p>
<p>Sweet Zombie Jesus, an honest to god relativist roaming the earth. So your argument is basically that we were using different terms and neither of us are wrong because you&#8217;re using a rickety old Canuck insult variation instead of the American version? </p>
<p>Dude- don&#8217;t be a hoser. You post here entirely too much to not know what &#8220;wingnut&#8221; means in civilized countries..</p>
<p>Alright, that&#8217;s all the anti-Canadian chauvinism I can fake. </p>
<p>To be honest, mal, disappointment is the correct word. I thought folks around here might know if the &#8220;Thers called JG a pedophile&#8221; was thoroughly debunked, so I could go on, maybe link to it or at least disprove JG&#8217;s allegation that he would ban the asshole who made the remark. (Incidentally, while the PW commenters are by and large disgusting, there was a lot of enthusiasm for banning whoever made that comment. They&#8217;re not *completely* amoral, just mostly.). I asked some questions, repeatedly stated  I was against outing, requested not to be piled on-</p>
<p>And here we are, still discussing each others failings. I know you&#8217;re not apologizing, but having read your humor comments on other topics, this whole conversation been pretty fucking disappointing. I&#8217;m not expecting an apology though- that would require class, and Dr. BLT (!) is the only one on here who&#8217;s displayed any of that. </p>
<p>Good day to you.</p>
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		<title>By: marky</title>
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		<dc:creator>marky</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 31 May 2006 20:59:38 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>OMG, bas... that comment was a parody, right?
I know the commenters at PW are the bottom of the barrel, but...</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>OMG, bas&#8230; that comment was a parody, right?<br />
I know the commenters at PW are the bottom of the barrel, but&#8230;</p>
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		<title>By: Bas-O-Matic</title>
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		<dc:creator>Bas-O-Matic</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 31 May 2006 20:50:07 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&lt;i&gt;marky said,

May 31, 2006 at 10:02 pm 

I have a new diagnostic criterion for wingnuttery: high noise to signal ratio, despite high letter count in the signal.
Pasty is the worst. Heâ€™s one of the most verbose, empty-headed wankers Iâ€™ve ever seen. &lt;/i&gt;

Funniest thing said in a completely unfunny episode (From one of threads over at protein wisdom)

&lt;I&gt;&lt;b&gt;I will point out that Jeff understands his subject matter well enough to be concise.  That concision is found at various points along his essays.&lt;/b&gt; 

That he enjoys laying out the thoughts that lead up to the summarizing statement on his blog is not a bad trait ... on a blog. 

An important distinction between Jeff and Thersites is that Thersites (and Hamsher for that matter) does not understand the material well enough to be concise.  He might â€˜know the materialâ€™ but hasnâ€™t figured out a way to convey that knowledge with any sort of brevity or, for that matter, in his own words.  &lt;/i&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><i>marky said,</p>
<p>May 31, 2006 at 10:02 pm </p>
<p>I have a new diagnostic criterion for wingnuttery: high noise to signal ratio, despite high letter count in the signal.<br />
Pasty is the worst. Heâ€™s one of the most verbose, empty-headed wankers Iâ€™ve ever seen. </i></p>
<p>Funniest thing said in a completely unfunny episode (From one of threads over at protein wisdom)</p>
<p><i><b>I will point out that Jeff understands his subject matter well enough to be concise.  That concision is found at various points along his essays.</b> </p>
<p>That he enjoys laying out the thoughts that lead up to the summarizing statement on his blog is not a bad trait &#8230; on a blog. </p>
<p>An important distinction between Jeff and Thersites is that Thersites (and Hamsher for that matter) does not understand the material well enough to be concise.  He might â€˜know the materialâ€™ but hasnâ€™t figured out a way to convey that knowledge with any sort of brevity or, for that matter, in his own words.  </i></p>
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		<title>By: Dr. BLT</title>
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		<dc:creator>Dr. BLT</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 31 May 2006 20:32:39 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>And I forgive your lack of contrition, Mal de mer.  Now let&#039;s stop this, everybody, before it turns into one big love fest.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>And I forgive your lack of contrition, Mal de mer.  Now let&#8217;s stop this, everybody, before it turns into one big love fest.</p>
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		<title>By: Mal de mer</title>
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		<dc:creator>Mal de mer</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 31 May 2006 20:23:17 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&lt;i&gt;So, your argument is â€œPeople who get upset being called wingnuts must be wingnutsâ€??&lt;/i&gt;

Yeah, that would be the one.  Remember, I&#039;m not from a place that&#039;s having a &quot;tribal/culture war&quot; (except for the tribal wars Canada has had for, like...&lt;i&gt;forever&lt;/i&gt;) so &quot;wingnut&quot; doesn&#039;t always mean the same thing for me as it does for you.

And I&#039;m not apologising for anything; for my laziness, my wrongness, my pitiableness, my assinine accusation and my pathetic defense thereof...not apologising for obviously &lt;i&gt;disappointing you so thoroughly and completely.&lt;/i&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><i>So, your argument is â€œPeople who get upset being called wingnuts must be wingnutsâ€??</i></p>
<p>Yeah, that would be the one.  Remember, I&#8217;m not from a place that&#8217;s having a &#8220;tribal/culture war&#8221; (except for the tribal wars Canada has had for, like&#8230;<i>forever</i>) so &#8220;wingnut&#8221; doesn&#8217;t always mean the same thing for me as it does for you.</p>
<p>And I&#8217;m not apologising for anything; for my laziness, my wrongness, my pitiableness, my assinine accusation and my pathetic defense thereof&#8230;not apologising for obviously <i>disappointing you so thoroughly and completely.</i></p>
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		<title>By: Dr. BLT</title>
		<link>http://www.sadlyno.com/archives/2852.html#comment-53859</link>
		<dc:creator>Dr. BLT</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 31 May 2006 20:16:43 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>And I apologize to you, Mal de mer, for not being in touch with my passive-aggressive side sooner, and for boring you with my comments.  And I apologize to myself for allowing myself to be out-shrunk by a non-shrink.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>And I apologize to you, Mal de mer, for not being in touch with my passive-aggressive side sooner, and for boring you with my comments.  And I apologize to myself for allowing myself to be out-shrunk by a non-shrink.</p>
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		<title>By: Dobby</title>
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		<dc:creator>Dobby</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 31 May 2006 20:06:32 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&lt;blockquote&gt;And yes, I am intending to damn both of you with faint praise.&lt;/blockquote&gt;

And I apologize for mistakenly calling you a wingnut.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<blockquote><p>And yes, I am intending to damn both of you with faint praise.</p></blockquote>
<p>And I apologize for mistakenly calling you a wingnut.</p>
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		<title>By: marky</title>
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		<dc:creator>marky</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 31 May 2006 20:02:22 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I have a new diagnostic criterion for wingnuttery: high noise to signal ratio, despite high letter count in the signal. 
Pasty is the worst. He&#039;s one of the most verbose, empty-headed wankers I&#039;ve ever seen.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I have a new diagnostic criterion for wingnuttery: high noise to signal ratio, despite high letter count in the signal.<br />
Pasty is the worst. He&#8217;s one of the most verbose, empty-headed wankers I&#8217;ve ever seen.</p>
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