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		<title>By: Demogenes Aristophanes</title>
		<link>http://www.sadlyno.com/archives/2435.html#comment-10921</link>
		<dc:creator>Demogenes Aristophanes</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 16 Mar 2006 16:19:44 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I&#039;ve declared March a booze-free month for the most part ... had a glass of wine at my mom&#039;s birthday dinner t&#039;other night, but that&#039;s it so far.

Now it&#039;s just the coffee, smokes and huffing Lee Press On Nail adhesive that I need to work on.
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		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I&#8217;ve declared March a booze-free month for the most part &#8230; had a glass of wine at my mom&#8217;s birthday dinner t&#8217;other night, but that&#8217;s it so far.</p>
<p>Now it&#8217;s just the coffee, smokes and huffing Lee Press On Nail adhesive that I need to work on.</p>
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		<title>By: Marq</title>
		<link>http://www.sadlyno.com/archives/2435.html#comment-10920</link>
		<dc:creator>Marq</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 15 Mar 2006 20:16:10 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I did a pretty fair amount of drinking last night--&lt;i&gt;8, &lt;/i&gt;I believe. I woulda drank less, but somebody bought me a few, 3, I think (2 shots and a beer). Oh, &lt;i&gt;sure, &lt;/i&gt;I could have reduced my own expenditures to compensate for those three drinks, but, hey, they were &lt;i&gt;free &lt;/i&gt;to me. I didn&#039;t even have to blow anyone to get &#039;em.
In fact, the dudes I sucked-off didn&#039;t buy me &lt;i&gt;any &lt;/i&gt;drinks at all!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I did a pretty fair amount of drinking last night&#8211;<i>8, </i>I believe. I woulda drank less, but somebody bought me a few, 3, I think (2 shots and a beer). Oh, <i>sure, </i>I could have reduced my own expenditures to compensate for those three drinks, but, hey, they were <i>free </i>to me. I didn&#8217;t even have to blow anyone to get &#8216;em.<br />
In fact, the dudes I sucked-off didn&#8217;t buy me <i>any </i>drinks at all!</p>
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		<title>By: Joshua Miller</title>
		<link>http://www.sadlyno.com/archives/2435.html#comment-10919</link>
		<dc:creator>Joshua Miller</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 15 Mar 2006 14:38:14 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>My favorite definition of an alcoholic (and there are as many definitions of that word as there are of any other political thing like &#039;freedom&#039; or &#039;love&#039; or &#039;terrorism&#039;) is someone who wants to quit but can&#039;t. If you don&#039;t want to quit, it&#039;s not surprising that you can.

On the other hand, quitting because you&#039;ve read lots of scary medical literature seems silly. When I decided to quit, it was because, on balance, life seemed better without a drink than with one. Of course, it helped to spend a month without so I had something to compare.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>My favorite definition of an alcoholic (and there are as many definitions of that word as there are of any other political thing like &#8216;freedom&#8217; or &#8216;love&#8217; or &#8216;terrorism&#8217;) is someone who wants to quit but can&#8217;t. If you don&#8217;t want to quit, it&#8217;s not surprising that you can.</p>
<p>On the other hand, quitting because you&#8217;ve read lots of scary medical literature seems silly. When I decided to quit, it was because, on balance, life seemed better without a drink than with one. Of course, it helped to spend a month without so I had something to compare.</p>
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		<title>By: Marq</title>
		<link>http://www.sadlyno.com/archives/2435.html#comment-10918</link>
		<dc:creator>Marq</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 15 Mar 2006 14:25:10 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&quot;Beer! The cause of--and solution to--all of life&#039;s problems!&quot;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>&#8220;Beer! The cause of&#8211;and solution to&#8211;all of life&#8217;s problems!&#8221;</p>
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		<title>By: dAVE</title>
		<link>http://www.sadlyno.com/archives/2435.html#comment-10917</link>
		<dc:creator>dAVE</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 15 Mar 2006 12:58:42 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>woo hoo!  Thanks mdhatter! I nailed something!
Oh, wait. that didn&#039;t come out like I intended.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>woo hoo!  Thanks mdhatter! I nailed something!<br />
Oh, wait. that didn&#8217;t come out like I intended.</p>
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		<title>By: Kathleen</title>
		<link>http://www.sadlyno.com/archives/2435.html#comment-10916</link>
		<dc:creator>Kathleen</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 15 Mar 2006 09:45:01 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>BTW, I totally wanted it to be Monday Tea Bagging.  very disappointing.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>BTW, I totally wanted it to be Monday Tea Bagging.  very disappointing.</p>
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		<title>By: Gavin M.</title>
		<link>http://www.sadlyno.com/archives/2435.html#comment-10915</link>
		<dc:creator>Gavin M.</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 15 Mar 2006 09:20:12 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&lt;i&gt;Please tell me you only &lt;/i&gt;feel&lt;i&gt; like doing push-ups.&lt;/i&gt;

Maybe some sit-ups later, but... Okay yeah, that&#039;s bad, isn&#039;t it?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><i>Please tell me you only </i>feel<i> like doing push-ups.</i></p>
<p>Maybe some sit-ups later, but&#8230; Okay yeah, that&#8217;s bad, isn&#8217;t it?</p>
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		<title>By: mdhatter</title>
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		<dc:creator>mdhatter</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 15 Mar 2006 08:59:30 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>dAVE nails it. 

Though the jekyll/hyde of alcohol with some people is unbearable, it&#039;s also usually damned entertaining. 

Please tell me you only &lt;i&gt;feel&lt;/i&gt; like doing push-ups.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>dAVE nails it. </p>
<p>Though the jekyll/hyde of alcohol with some people is unbearable, it&#8217;s also usually damned entertaining. </p>
<p>Please tell me you only <i>feel</i> like doing push-ups.</p>
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		<title>By: PInko Punko</title>
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		<dc:creator>PInko Punko</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 15 Mar 2006 08:48:43 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Did Brad ever kick ciggies?</description>
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		<title>By: Charlotte Smith</title>
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		<dc:creator>Charlotte Smith</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 15 Mar 2006 04:07:39 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Congrats on the life change, if it makes you feel good. As the daughter of an alcoholic (and the niece of an alcoholic, and the granddaughter of at least one... it affected pretty much one whole side of my family), I find there&#039;s a few good indicators of whether or not you are a problem drinker:
Do you crave alcohol?
Do you justify/rationalize/make excuses for your drinking?
Does your drinking get in the way of important things in your life?
Do you rely on it to get through hard or stressful times?
I&#039;m paraphrasing here, of course. And I&#039;m nowhere near any kind of expert. But it doesn&#039;t seem like you&#039;re exhibiting much in the way of addictive behaviour. I say have a beer or two and a few glasses of wine through the week, since each seem to have potential health benefits for men. And enjoy the wonderful world of teas! 
(Remember - I&#039;m not a doctor, I just have really messy handwriting.)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Congrats on the life change, if it makes you feel good. As the daughter of an alcoholic (and the niece of an alcoholic, and the granddaughter of at least one&#8230; it affected pretty much one whole side of my family), I find there&#8217;s a few good indicators of whether or not you are a problem drinker:<br />
Do you crave alcohol?<br />
Do you justify/rationalize/make excuses for your drinking?<br />
Does your drinking get in the way of important things in your life?<br />
Do you rely on it to get through hard or stressful times?<br />
I&#8217;m paraphrasing here, of course. And I&#8217;m nowhere near any kind of expert. But it doesn&#8217;t seem like you&#8217;re exhibiting much in the way of addictive behaviour. I say have a beer or two and a few glasses of wine through the week, since each seem to have potential health benefits for men. And enjoy the wonderful world of teas!<br />
(Remember &#8211; I&#8217;m not a doctor, I just have really messy handwriting.)</p>
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		<title>By: Chris</title>
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		<dc:creator>Chris</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 15 Mar 2006 02:40:15 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>My wife&#039;s in recovery, which pretty much means I&#039;m in recovery, but damn if my eyes didn&#039;t light up at the sight of Young&#039;s Old Nick. If it weren&#039;t for the aforementioned wife, and the relative illegality of shipping alcohol into Pennsylvania, I&#039;d gladly offer to take the rest of that demon brew off your tea-stained hands.

Prosit to you regardless of what you do.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>My wife&#8217;s in recovery, which pretty much means I&#8217;m in recovery, but damn if my eyes didn&#8217;t light up at the sight of Young&#8217;s Old Nick. If it weren&#8217;t for the aforementioned wife, and the relative illegality of shipping alcohol into Pennsylvania, I&#8217;d gladly offer to take the rest of that demon brew off your tea-stained hands.</p>
<p>Prosit to you regardless of what you do.</p>
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		<title>By: dAVE</title>
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		<dc:creator>dAVE</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 15 Mar 2006 02:34:04 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I have found that there are two types of what the medical profession would designate &quot;alcoholics&quot;:

There are people like me and you, who enjoy drinking and can easily get into the habit of drinking more than is healthy.  At the rate of 1 beer an hour, starting at 5:30 when I got home from work and ending at 10:30, never really catching a big buzz, I was putting away a 6 pack a day.  Not only was this expensive, but bad for my liver. 

At a get together, I&#039;d get a good buzz going, but be having pleasant conversation the whole time, staying coherent, etc.

Now, the second kind I would call a genuine ALCOHOLIC:  This is the person who is a real pleasant guy or gal, and then after only a couple of drinks, starts to go insane.  Pretty soon, they are either telling everyone that they don&#039;t understand them, or making out with some stranger.  A couple of more drinks and they are repeating themselves over and over again, or breaking something, or taking of their clothes and yelling at people, or running out into the middle of the street.  Vomiting and immediately getting another drink is another indicator of what I would call a genuine alcoholic, as is peeing in the corner.  Also, deciding to go for a booze run when the stores stopped selling booze 2 hours ago, and not being able to understand that &quot;THEY&#039;RE NOT SELLING BOOZE RIGHT NOW, ASSHOLE!&quot;

These guys are a real drag, because it really kills everyone else&#039;s buzz to have to keep a lunatic drunk from hurting someone or something, or getting themselves hurt.

BTW - I cut down to between zero and 3 drinks a day pretty easily. No withdrawel or anything, just a change in habit.

It&#039;s the second kind of boozer that has a real hard time controlling consumption levels and not totally bingeing.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I have found that there are two types of what the medical profession would designate &#8220;alcoholics&#8221;:</p>
<p>There are people like me and you, who enjoy drinking and can easily get into the habit of drinking more than is healthy.  At the rate of 1 beer an hour, starting at 5:30 when I got home from work and ending at 10:30, never really catching a big buzz, I was putting away a 6 pack a day.  Not only was this expensive, but bad for my liver. </p>
<p>At a get together, I&#8217;d get a good buzz going, but be having pleasant conversation the whole time, staying coherent, etc.</p>
<p>Now, the second kind I would call a genuine ALCOHOLIC:  This is the person who is a real pleasant guy or gal, and then after only a couple of drinks, starts to go insane.  Pretty soon, they are either telling everyone that they don&#8217;t understand them, or making out with some stranger.  A couple of more drinks and they are repeating themselves over and over again, or breaking something, or taking of their clothes and yelling at people, or running out into the middle of the street.  Vomiting and immediately getting another drink is another indicator of what I would call a genuine alcoholic, as is peeing in the corner.  Also, deciding to go for a booze run when the stores stopped selling booze 2 hours ago, and not being able to understand that &#8220;THEY&#8217;RE NOT SELLING BOOZE RIGHT NOW, ASSHOLE!&#8221;</p>
<p>These guys are a real drag, because it really kills everyone else&#8217;s buzz to have to keep a lunatic drunk from hurting someone or something, or getting themselves hurt.</p>
<p>BTW &#8211; I cut down to between zero and 3 drinks a day pretty easily. No withdrawel or anything, just a change in habit.</p>
<p>It&#8217;s the second kind of boozer that has a real hard time controlling consumption levels and not totally bingeing.</p>
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		<title>By: Old Nick</title>
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		<dc:creator>Old Nick</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 15 Mar 2006 02:05:57 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Didn&#039;t anyone tell you?  Barley wine IS tea...really yummy tea.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Didn&#8217;t anyone tell you?  Barley wine IS tea&#8230;really yummy tea.</p>
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		<title>By: Gus</title>
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		<dc:creator>Gus</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 15 Mar 2006 01:37:39 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I did more or less the same thing. Nine per day might be on the high side, but I was damn close, for at least 15 years. I&#039;m down to 2-3 beers a day. Some days I don&#039;t have any, but usually a couple a day. I believe I can take it or leave it, but I&#039;d rather take it.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I did more or less the same thing. Nine per day might be on the high side, but I was damn close, for at least 15 years. I&#8217;m down to 2-3 beers a day. Some days I don&#8217;t have any, but usually a couple a day. I believe I can take it or leave it, but I&#8217;d rather take it.</p>
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		<title>By: Kathleen</title>
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		<dc:creator>Kathleen</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 15 Mar 2006 01:30:56 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>you are my new favorite Gavin.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>you are my new favorite Gavin.</p>
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		<title>By: Anonymous</title>
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		<dc:creator>Anonymous</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 15 Mar 2006 01:19:46 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>isn&#039;t there supposed to be a genetic factor; like some people can get addicted to alcohol, and others are just louses like you</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>isn&#8217;t there supposed to be a genetic factor; like some people can get addicted to alcohol, and others are just louses like you</p>
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		<title>By: tigrismus</title>
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		<dc:creator>tigrismus</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 15 Mar 2006 01:09:14 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I haven&#039;t had Steel Reserve, so I can&#039;t judge whether or not it&#039;s worthy, but don&#039;t you be dissin&#039; kale!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I haven&#8217;t had Steel Reserve, so I can&#8217;t judge whether or not it&#8217;s worthy, but don&#8217;t you be dissin&#8217; kale!</p>
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		<title>By: verplanck colvin</title>
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		<dc:creator>verplanck colvin</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 15 Mar 2006 00:07:44 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Steel Reserve excluded, tigrismus.  Everyone gets one &quot;out&quot; for their swill of choice.  I claim Genesee Cream Ale, otherwise it&#039;s beer I brewed or a nice single-malt (Laphroaig for me, thanks).

Gavin, there are plenty of fine tea sellers online, so you can really dig your teeth into a wide variety of teas.  Go delicate and get some white tea, or go dark and try some masala (spiced black tea), your options are wide open.

But &lt;i&gt;running&lt;/i&gt;?  Good god, man, chill out.  Next thing you know you&#039;re living off of spirulina, kale and tempeh, and worried about those CRT rays at your monitor.  Then we find you holed up in the Catskills living out of a hollowed-out tree stump.  What happens to Video Friday then, huh?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Steel Reserve excluded, tigrismus.  Everyone gets one &#8220;out&#8221; for their swill of choice.  I claim Genesee Cream Ale, otherwise it&#8217;s beer I brewed or a nice single-malt (Laphroaig for me, thanks).</p>
<p>Gavin, there are plenty of fine tea sellers online, so you can really dig your teeth into a wide variety of teas.  Go delicate and get some white tea, or go dark and try some masala (spiced black tea), your options are wide open.</p>
<p>But <i>running</i>?  Good god, man, chill out.  Next thing you know you&#8217;re living off of spirulina, kale and tempeh, and worried about those CRT rays at your monitor.  Then we find you holed up in the Catskills living out of a hollowed-out tree stump.  What happens to Video Friday then, huh?</p>
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		<title>By: tigrismus</title>
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		<dc:creator>tigrismus</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 14 Mar 2006 23:42:25 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I&#039;m having tea right now, too; it&#039;s so warming, so comforting on a cold, gray day.  Of course, booze for breakfast was never really my thing, so this is not a major change for me.  Upton Tea is a good online tea seller.  

My advice on the booze(and what is a blog for if not for everyone to give everyone else advice to ignore?) is that if stopping makes you feel so great, stop.  Otherwise, never drink alone(at the computer especially), set personal limits(I&#039;ll usually only have one, but at 120 lbs that&#039;s size-related), and learn to nurse one for a long time.  Also, only ever drink really good booze; one glass of fine wine or good beer is far more of a treat than several servings of swill.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I&#8217;m having tea right now, too; it&#8217;s so warming, so comforting on a cold, gray day.  Of course, booze for breakfast was never really my thing, so this is not a major change for me.  Upton Tea is a good online tea seller.  </p>
<p>My advice on the booze(and what is a blog for if not for everyone to give everyone else advice to ignore?) is that if stopping makes you feel so great, stop.  Otherwise, never drink alone(at the computer especially), set personal limits(I&#8217;ll usually only have one, but at 120 lbs that&#8217;s size-related), and learn to nurse one for a long time.  Also, only ever drink really good booze; one glass of fine wine or good beer is far more of a treat than several servings of swill.</p>
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		<title>By: Res Publica</title>
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		<dc:creator>Res Publica</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 14 Mar 2006 23:28:44 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>My only comment is that I&#039;d like to see a whole lot more pictures of cats getting wasted.</description>
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